It appears that my Red Birds In a Tree is comming to the end of its blooming season. At least it doesn't seem to have a lot of new buds that appeal to the humming birds. I have been conscious to not overwater as I had read that they fare better in dryer climates. Perhaps you have given it more water than it needs. I too have read that they don't have a long lifespan. I don't know what that means. I think this is the third year for my plant. I have another first year plant in another area. I have wondered about all the blooms that are followed by what look like seeds, but have not seen any new plants. I think I tried to plant one last fall, but it didn't survive although the nursery expert said that she had success with some fall plantings. My suggestion would be to take a photo of the plant and send it to High Country Gardens and ask them what they think. I've never tried it but it might be worth a try. I think they were original nursery to sell this plant.